Do You Have A Troubled Child?

Has your child recently gone through something traumatic? For example, have you and your spouse recently divorced? Has there been the death of a person whom your child especially loved? Even a move to a new location might be hard for a child. Or, it might even be that your child has been bullied at school or in the neighborhood. The list of things that can trouble your child could go on and on. The important thing, of course, is to help him or her through a difficult time. From spending one-on-one time with your troubled child to seeking professional pediatric counseling, here are some ideas that might help you to help your child.

One-On-One With Friends And Family - Of course, this is an important time for your child to feel like he or she is not alone. Do both you and your spouse work outside of the home? Do you have the luxury of taking a leave of absence to spend time with your son or daughter? If that is not possible, think of at least trying to shorten your work hours or to work at home. Have a confidential talk with your boss and explain the importance of you spending time with your child and you will more than likely receive the support you seek.

Think of fun things you can do together as you go on outings together. Divide the outings into two categories. The first category is the time you spend just one-on-one. You might be surprised at the in-depth talks you can have in the car when you turn off the radio and leave electronic games behind. Strolling through a place like the zoo together might also be very therapeutic. The second category is where you involve others. Think of your child's very closest friends. Invite just one or two of them to play in the safety of your home. 

Seek Professional Pediatric Counseling For Your Child - If you have decided that it is time to get professional help, look for a counseling agency that specializes in pediatric occupational therapy like ABC Pediatric Therapy. He or she will have the training and the experience to know how to engage your child and will know how to help him or her to get through a rough time. Time spent with the counselor won't be all talking. The counselor will more than likely use special toys and games that invite in-depth conversations. Also, your child might be invited to draw or paint, giving clues as to what is bothering him or her. You'll probably be part of the sessions sometimes, but also expect for your child to have alone time with the counselor, too.

Consider keeping a journal of your child's progress. Write down things that you feel you need to share with the occupational therapist, too.